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Establishing Paternity in Illinois
When a child is born, it is automatically known who the child’s mother is--this is not the case for the child’s father. In Illinois, if a couple is not married or in a civil union when the child is born, the father is not legally considered the father of the child and his name cannot be added to the birth certificate until paternity is established. The only time there is a legal presumption of paternity is if the mother and the father of the child were married or in a civil union at the time of the child’s birth, or were married within 300 days before the child was born. Establishing paternity is important for both the parents of the child and the child itself.
The Importance of Determining Paternity
When a child’s paternity is in question, the father does not have any legal rights when it comes to the child. In order for a father to have rights to parenting time or parenting decisions, like decisions about the child’s healthcare or education, paternity must be established for the child.
Establishing Paternity Through Genetic Testing in Illinois
In the state of Illinois, a man is only legally presumed to be the father of a child if the mother was married or in a civil union with him when the child was born or within 300 days before the child was born. If the mother was not married when the child was born, the man she names as the father of the child is then referred to as the alleged father. That man will only become the legal father after one of three things happens:
- Both parents complete and sign a Voluntary Acknowledgement of Paternity form when or soon after the child is born;
- An administrative paternity order is entered into by a child support agency; or
- An order of paternity has been entered in court by a judge.
If the father contests the paternity of the child, the mother will then have to file a paternity suit that seeks to establish a parent-child relationship between the father and the child. Once you enter into a paternity suit, the judge will more-than-likely order the mother, the alleged father and the child to submit to genetic testing.
Understanding the Legal Implications of Spousal Abandonment in Illinois
In the wake of a heated argument, one spouse may decide to leave the other for a short period of time. Although it is not uncommon for married couples to argue or want to spend time apart, certain behaviors may constitute spousal abandonment according to Illinois law, and this may be grounds for divorce.
What Constitutes Abandonment?
In most cases, it is best for divorcing spouses not to change the living arrangement by relocating. The exception is when there are factors that put either spouse or any children in danger.
The courts do not consider every situation involving one spouse leaving to be abandonment. However, when one spouse leaves without any explanation, does not return for one year or longer, and provides no information about where he or she is, this may be abandonment.
Blended Family: Balancing Natural and Stepparents' Visitation And Custody
Child custody and visitation plans can be some of the most challenging and potentially contentious aspects of a dissolution of marriage proceeding. Additionally, the composition of the modern, blended family can present additional challenges when there are stepparents involved in or impacted by custody agreements.
Visitation and Custody Agreements in Illinois for Natural Parents
In Illinois divorce cases involving children, it is typical that one parent is designated as the primary or residential parent of the child(ren). This is to ensure continuity for administration of a legal mailing address and school district qualifications.
The residential or custodial parent is most often the parent with whom the children spend the majority of their time. It is important for parents to understand that joint custody agreements do not automatically equate to an even split of the parenting time between both parents. The non-custodial parent will receive, unless there is a reason to deny the request, visitation rights to foster their relationship with the child(ren) and provide him or her with parenting time.
Do Parents Force Children to Choose Between Mom and Dad?
A Michigan judge made headlines earlier this summer when she ordered three children – ages 14, 10, and 9 – to spend time in a juvenile correctional facility when they refused to have lunch with their father. Such an extreme case of parental alienation syndrome is quite rare, but PAS is common in most DuPage County child custody disputes, to one degree or another.
Oakland County Circuit Court Judge Lisa Gorcyca issued the order in a six-year-old divorce case between a General Motors engineer father and a pediatric eye doctor mother. Much of the rancor in the case stems from an August 2010 incident at a West Bloomfield park; the township is an upscale Detroit suburb. Apparently, the mother locked two of the children in a car to “protect” them against their father; a third child climbed to the top of a piece of playground equipment to escape his father who, according to the child, threatened to kill him if he did not come down.
Temporary Custody and Visitation Modification for Armed Forces Deployment
Military families are often asked to make tremendous sacrifices in order to provide the armed services with manpower necessary to protect the United States of America. Under the best of circumstances, a lengthy deployment or training exercise can have a dramatic impact on the stability of an affected family. Of course, for separated or divorced parents who serve, the effect can be even more severe, as an order for child custody—soon to be called allocated parental responsibilities—cannot possibly take into account the unpredictability of a deployment situation. Fortunately, the law in Illinois provides a measure of relief for military parents which can help them fulfill their duties without the risk of legal action for non-compliance with a family court order.
Helping Military Parents
In most family-related cases, temporary orders are only used until a permanent order can be negotiated or entered by the court. This is not uncommon, for example, between the filing of a petition for divorce and the entry of the divorce judgment, which may not occur for several months. Temporary orders can be used to create custody and visitation arrangements, as well as interim arrangements for spousal maintenance or child support. Once the permanent order has been entered, however, only court-approved modifications can change it, and such modifications are permanent as well.
Preparing for the Holidays in Two Homes
With Thanksgiving about a week away, and the winter holidays just around the corner, it is time to begin making plans. In most families, such plans may include which family member is bringing what dessert, and who is hosting dinner this year. For divorced or unmarried parents subject to a custody or parenting time agreement, however, the preparation process often includes some additional elements. If your child splits his or her time between your home and that of the other parent, the holiday season probably requires a level of cooperation, but with reasonable communication, the experience can be positive for all involved.
Check Your Agreement
Your parenting agreement may already include provisions regarding the holidays. Parenting time orders are often customized based on the traditions and priorities of each family, and there are variety of ways to make such a schedule. For example, your order may indicate that this year, your child spends Thanksgiving with you and Christmas with the other parent, and then next year, the opposite occurs. Alternatively, it may specify that your child spends the morning with you on designated holidays and the afternoon with other parent. If a particular holiday is not traditionally observed by one parent or the other, the agreement may permit the child to stay with parent who does celebrate it for the entire day.
Considering School Districts in the Allocation of Parental Responsibilities
When parents cannot reach an amicable agreement regarding the allocation of parental responsibilities, a judge is required to make a decision based upon the best interests of a child. Among many considerations, the judge will have to decide which home is the best place for the child to live most of the time. Does the school district you live in influence that decision?
Education is One Factor
There are many different factors that go into making a decision that is in the best interest of the child. The type of education a child will receive is an important concern, but it is only one factor among many. Other factors Illinois judges look at when deciding what is in a child’s best interest include but are certainly not limited to:
- What provides the child the most stability;
- Mental and physical health of all involved;
- The child’s needs; and
Your Parenting Plan Could Include the Right of First Refusal
While parenting after a divorce or a breakup of unmarried parents will nearly always be challenging, your child will benefit from determined cooperation between you and your former partner. While parents have long been permitted to develop their own agreements regarding child custody—as long as they promoted the best interests of the child—the law in Illinois was recently amended regarding child custody and parenting concerns. Today, divorced or unmarried parents are not only allowed to create a parenting plan, but they are fully expected by the court to do so. One element that must be considered in drafting a parenting plan is each parent’s right of first refusal and whether such rights are appropriate for a particular situation.
Extra Parenting Time
At some point, most parents will need someone to watch their children. This, as you might expect, may be frustrating at times for a parent whose time with his or her child is already limited due to a divorce. On the other hand, a parent in that situation may also be looking for additional ways to participate in the child’s life. Including the right of first refusal in your parenting plan could directly address both concerns.
Working With a Custody Evaluator
When you are involved in a dispute regarding parental responsibilities or parenting time, it can difficult for the court to determine an ideal resolution. While judges and attorneys are well-versed in the law, they may not have such a clear picture of your family’s unique situation. The documents and evidence that you and the other parent present during the proceedings can provide a glimpse into your life, but are often not enough, especially if one or both of you are not being totally honest. In such cases, the court may order a professional evaluator to review your family’s circumstances.
What Will an Evaluator Do?
An appointed custody evaluator may be utilized to help the court develop an understanding of how each of you is equipped to provide for your child. The evaluator may visit interview each parent and the child, visit each parent’s home, and gather information that will help the court in making a decision regarding the child’s best interests. He or she is required by law to prepare a comprehensive report documenting the data collected as well as his or her conclusions and recommendations about how the court should decide.